Creating Your Dream Life

Sep 21, 20142 min read

Air Jordans, Porn, and your Soul

It is during these times of solitude and inner stillness that important thoughts, themes, or metaphors come to mind. So just a few weeks...

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Aug 22, 20143 min read

7 Signs You Should Stay (post porn discovery)

Stay or go? “Should I stay or should I go…?” Those are the words to a catchy 80’s song but it’s also the question many women (and some...

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Aug 15, 20143 min read

Walk in the Light – Be Ever Accountable (guest blog by Matt Cooper)

http://www.everaccountable.com “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of...

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Apr 7, 20143 min read

How My Wife and Pinterest Called Me Out

After a bit of foot-shuffling I finally conceded and started watching film on the project (THANK YOU YOUTUBE). By the way that’s what us...

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Mar 5, 20143 min read

8 “B” Attitudes for Men to Beat Porn

“B” Attitudes Break up…with all those “fantasy” girlfriends you’ve been checking out online and dating in your mind. Make a clean break....

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Mar 3, 20141 min read

FREE BOOK TODAY!

Craig Gross, and the team at xxxchurch.com is offering an e-book version of Pure Eyes for FREE today! Craig Gross, and Steven Luff wrote...

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Feb 18, 20142 min read

Pleasure and Living Well

Pleasure and Living Well I’ll confess a certain hedonistic tendency. If you’re honest my guess is you’ve found yourself strung out on...

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May 15, 20134 min read

5 “First Response” Strategies for Parents

1. Remain calm but proactive. Doesn’t do anyone any good to freak out! Don’t think that because your child saw porn he or she will...

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Apr 24, 20133 min read

Myth #10 Grounds for Divorce

Myth #10 Grounds for Divorce The first time I wrote about this particular myth it created quite a firestorm of reaction from readers....

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Apr 23, 20133 min read

Myth #9 No Such Thing

Myth #9 No Such thing As Sex Addiction Surprisingly, there is a common myth that often persists among christians that says that there is...

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Apr 18, 20133 min read

Myth #8 Poor Parenting is the Cause

Myth #8 Blame the Parents Believe it or not there are dudes (and chicks) out there that blame their parents for their porn struggles....

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Apr 16, 20133 min read

Myth #7 I Can Do It On My Own

“We have a better chance at survival if we work together!” My quick response to this myth is, uhhh, how’s that working for ya!? Sure...

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Apr 10, 20133 min read

Myth #6 “I Have A Higher Drive” (That Must Be Satisfied)

Myth #6 A Higher Sex Drive Justifies There’s another very common myth out there that says that there are just some guys who have a higher...

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Apr 3, 20133 min read

Myth #5 Legit Option for Christian Couples

YOU are more than just a BODY I had a guy share quite a fascinating story with me about his past porn addiction. He and his wife were...

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Mar 28, 20133 min read

3 Strategies for Relapse Prevention

3 Strategies #1 Pursue Deeper Levels of Intimacy Establishing deeper levels of intimacy with your spouse as well as close friends and...

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Mar 27, 20133 min read

Myth #4 “I’m Only Hurting Myself!”

“I’m only hurting myself!” Probably the most common myth encountered when it comes to porn addiction is the idea that it only hurts the...

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Mar 26, 20132 min read

Myth #3 Can Never Live Without It

When it Seems Impossible The third myth in our 10 Myths about Porn series of posts is a common one for sure. It’s what you could call the...

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Mar 17, 20133 min read

Myth #2 – Isn’t it only the guys who struggle?

18 % of women spend time online every week for the purpose of sexual arousal It would seem that this is actually true since guys are...

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Mar 15, 20133 min read

3 Ways to Keep Your Eyes on the Prize

Make Jesus Your “Diversion” In his book Christianity for Modern Pagans philosopher Peter Kreeft offers some great insights on why we...

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Feb 27, 20133 min read

Worship at the Porn “Church”

With apologies to my denomination, I’m going to suggest that there is another “church” growing much faster and having a far greater...

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