Creating Your Dream Life

Transformation at the Heart Level “But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him....

Myth #10 Grounds for Divorce The first time I wrote about this particular myth it created quite a firestorm of reaction from readers....

Myth #8 Blame the Parents Believe it or not there are dudes (and chicks) out there that blame their parents for their porn struggles....

“We have a better chance at survival if we work together!” My quick response to this myth is, uhhh, how’s that working for ya!? Sure...

Myth #6 A Higher Sex Drive Justifies There’s another very common myth out there that says that there are just some guys who have a higher...

3 Strategies #1 Pursue Deeper Levels of Intimacy  Establishing deeper levels of intimacy with your spouse as well as close friends and...

“I’m only hurting myself!” Probably the most common myth encountered when it comes to porn addiction is the idea that it only hurts the...

When it Seems Impossible The third myth in our 10 Myths about Porn series of posts is a common one for sure. It’s what you could call the...

Avoid Bad Talks, Keynotes, and Sermons For the better part of my life I’ve been standing in front of audiences. I still remember the...

18 % of women spend time online every week for the purpose of sexual arousal It would seem that this is actually true since guys are...

Make Jesus Your “Diversion” In his book Christianity for Modern Pagans philosopher Peter Kreeft offers some great insights on why we...

Confronting the Myths *My next 10 posts will deal with ten myths I’ve identified about porn. The posts are meant to shed some light on...

#2 Porn Demands A Performance Pornography is meant to arouse. It has an end in mind and that is the high of orgasm. But pornography only...

With apologies to my denomination, I’m going to suggest that there is another “church” growing much faster and having a far greater...

FREEDOM A true story from the fourteenth century tells of a duke named Raynald III.  Raynald lived a life of indulgence and was extremely...

Making the “Shift” I really believe “Shift” must happen in all of us! Shifts are challenging transitions we make that ultimately lead to...

Make the “Shift” Do you remember learning to drive a stick shift? Remember how incredibly awkward it was? Having to deal with the car...

Classic Compartmentalization I recently sat through a truly hysterical presentation on marriage by Christian comic Mark Gungor called...

Daniel’s Blog There’s a book that was released just a few months ago that I would encourage you to read. It is a compilation of blog...

Governor Christie on Letterman If you’ve picked up on the spat between New Jersey governor Chris Christie, and former White House...