Creating Your Dream Life

18 % of women spend time online every week for the purpose of sexual arousal It would seem that this is actually true since guys are...

Make Jesus Your “Diversion” In his book Christianity for Modern Pagans philosopher Peter Kreeft offers some great insights on why we...

Confronting the Myths *My next 10 posts will deal with ten myths I’ve identified about porn. The posts are meant to shed some light on...

#2 Porn Demands A Performance Pornography is meant to arouse. It has an end in mind and that is the high of orgasm. But pornography only...

Making the “Shift” I really believe “Shift” must happen in all of us! Shifts are challenging transitions we make that ultimately lead to...

Make the “Shift” Do you remember learning to drive a stick shift? Remember how incredibly awkward it was? Having to deal with the car...

Classic Compartmentalization I recently sat through a truly hysterical presentation on marriage by Christian comic Mark Gungor called...

Governor Christie on Letterman If you’ve picked up on the spat between New Jersey governor Chris Christie, and former White House...

What are you doing? The 5th and final “Talking Point” has to do with the reality that when someone experiences a real breakthrough, there...

Transformation I used an illustration in a sermon recently where I took a rubber ball and a soda can up on stage. I used the items to...

Our Purpose Matters As a teenager and into my twenties I spent my summers working at a beautiful summer camp situated on a massive lake...

“If it’s important to you, you’ll find a way. If not, you’ll find an excuse.” -XXXChurch.com #support #pornaddiction #xxxchurch...

Less Hero, More Light As a kid I spent hours pretending to be my favorite Super hero Superman.  Since I didn’t have a real red cape I...

Created for Intimacy We were made for intimacy.  When Jesus described the “greatest command” he said it was to: “‘Love the Lord your God...

5 Talking Points on Sexual Integrity Yesterday I spent some time with a guy who is struggling greatly with porn and sexual sin.  It cost...

“The greatest tragedy is not death, but life without purpose.”    Rick Warren, Purpose Driven Life #rickwarrenpurposedrivenlife #quotes...

But we need to talk and we need to talk about the challenges we face and perhaps even the failures we’ve experienced. A few years ago I...

Got a note recently asking if I thought a lay leader should step down because they’ve been struggling with porn and masturbation.  This...

Just Peace. I took Greek class at 7 am for an entire year as a Theology major.  It was tough to get there but my professor always kept it...

I’ve been asked what it took for me to finally come out of the “porn fog” and honestly deal with my problem.  It was likely a combination...